Change of perspective

This hurts more than the word HURT. I don't know what to think. Im too afraid to talk to him. Is it because I'm afraid of what he may say or worse, what he may do...daddy can I please come back home....sadness is overwhelming. His whole view of me most likely has changed, and that's not a good thing. Holding back tears.

Be a great Father.

Fellas, have you ever met a female who was the epitome of "thirsty"? I mean willing to do anything for a dude's attention? Chances are she didn't have a father figure to tell her she was beautiful and adored her. So now she seeks and mistakes any attention for good attention. I said all of that to say this, if you have a daughter, who is not 100% sure that as her father you think she's amazing, intelligent, beautiful, and deserves the world, you had better shower her with all you can as soon as you can. Otherwise, you're raising that "thirsty" female.

I can show you better than I can tell you

Don't tell her you love her, SHOW her you love her with ACTIONS. Not gifts, not words, with actions such as spending time with her. Not being her slave, not kissing up to her, not doing anything she asks you to do ... compliment her ONCE that she looks great today in that outfit (not she is beautiful but the effort she took to look good for you is beautiful. Effort, not existance.)

Potrait Of A Woman

Ladies, your MAN should not be PROMPT DEPENDENT. If he refuses to please you, be supportive of you, claim you, marry you, support his children, or respect you, those are HIS CHOICES. He is a man, not a child. Despite what the media would like to tell you, REAL MEN do not need to be trained. He either wants to treat you well or he doesn't. He either wants to see you smile or he doesn't. He either wants to put you in front of his boys or he doesn't. These are CHOICES. His choices tell you whether or not you are his priority. His choices tell you whether or not he loves you. Sex WITHOUT a condom does not show love. Taking you out and buying things DOES NOT prove love. Commitment, respect, selflessness, and a desire to please and protect you show love. DO NOT be fooled by the imitators. Imitators will make small changes when prompted to show you false signs of hope. A REAL MAN does not need prompting to treat his woman RIGHT because she is his PRIORITY. REAL MEN are rare. They are a unique brand and they are molded differently, but the results are generally the same. They make good husbands, fathers, leaders, and they protect their community. Beware of IMITATIONS. All Orange Drinks are not Orange Juice and all Grown Males are not GROWN MEN via REAL MEN....DO REAL THINGS